Tips for Financial Caregivers

I want to hear from certified financial planners, estate attorneys and others expert on aging….What are your top 5-10 tips for adults who are taking care of their aging loved one’s finances. What 5-10 things should they do before they are caring for them, What are 5-10 things that are crucial once the parent becomes ill…what to look at before (preparing for the eventual decline), and after (once they are ill)…Send me your thoughts…steps to take, why, mistakes to avoid, why, etc.