Seeking financial counselor or advisor to discuss dealing with “spenders” in relationships

Looking for a financial adviser or relationships counselor to talk about ways to handle spenders vs. savers in relationships. When should you start to discuss money in relationships? How should a “saver” go about budgeting with a “spender?” What are some major issues that savers run into with spenders? What limits can both partners set when budgeting Requirements: Must be able to prove that you are a financial adviser, relationship counselor, or in any other way certified to provide advice in a financial capacity.